not really sure why I am posting, just feeling really shit today.
My dhs ex, refuses to use my name, she refers to me as "that bitch" to dh (who has constantly asked her not to) and more upsettingly to the dsc. They are not allowed to bring home anything I buy them, she even refused to look at their holiday pictures of Disney world because I was in some of them.
She won't speak to me at all and will completely ignore me or give me filthy looks from across the room, this is now rare as I don't really like attending things that she will be at.
She refers to me as that bitch with his family, who never pull her up on it, apparently it's funny and she doesn't mean anything by it. I have a long a problematic history with his family , which has mostly centred on the fact they don't agree with him marrying me, or us having a child together, who is now 3. He should have apparently stayed in a relationship and not married me, as he did not marry his ex and therefore it is inappropriate to marry someone who (at that time he did not have a child with) He then should not have had a further dc with me as it is unfair on his older two, how love their little sibling and who we all have a good relationship with.
I don't know where to go from here, I don't want to argue but it is really pissing me off, its so rude and disrespectful, I have never done anything mean or spiteful to her. DH has always dealt with drop offs pick ups, I don't get involved.
We have a family event coming up that my sil has invited her too and I don't want to go but dh is upset as he says I am family and need to be there and I would be if ex wasn't.
Just to say that had been separated for 4.5 years before I met him, they split up due to it not working, there was no ow or anything. She is remarried now also.
Any advice, I know I should ignore but it's easier said than done
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Trafficjammadness · 24/10/2017 15:14
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