an allegation.
Background:
SD who lives mostly with her mum is a troubled and is an unhappy young person.
She's 15.
She self harms, is under care of CAMHS has been sexually active from just 13 and is on antidepressants.
Her mother has always blamed DH for all the problems.in her life.
When SD was just 5 she piped up to DH "You're not with mummy anymore cause you were nasty to mummy"
I've been in her life since the age of 3. I met DH after they had been separated for around 18 months. She ended the relationship.
DH adores SD and has always been soft with her. When she was younger she was a real daddy's girl.
SD spent 3 weeks with us over the summer but she's not been to see us or her little sister for 8 weeks now. We're thought she was just wanted to hang out with her friends more. She's a teenager so no big deal...though her younger sister was quite upset not to see her big sis.
DH got a call last week..from social services.
SD was at a youth group when one of the organisers noticed brusing on her arm. They asked how that happened. She said "My dad did it"
DH work requires enhanced DBS checks and he also volunteers at a children's activity group twice a week.
Social services said they were not referring to police as SD had not seen DH for nearly 3 weeks when the bruising was found.
They were however going to investigate the welfare of our daughter???
They arranged for her to be interviewed at her school.
Our daughter is doing great. School totally supportive. But this has left me totally stressed out.
How to move on from this?
DH is in bits.
Our daughter is confused and upset.
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RockyBayEve · 22/10/2017 18:32
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