Over the last 12 months, the contact arrangement for DP and his 5 year old DD has changed so many times. This time last year he had her every Saturday and one night a week. Then around Christmas time it got switched to every other weekend Friday evening to Sunday evening. Then DP's ex constantly pissed around with contact, "forgetting" to drop her off on a Friday evening and then insisting he has DSD Saturday morning to Sunday morning every weekend. After Christmas his ex switched it again to Friday night to Sunday night eow and stopped midweek contact.
Now she wants to switch it again back to saturday morning to Sunday evening every weekend.
Poor DSD doesn't know whether she's coming or going. DP has said no to this most recent change as there have been so many changes recently it's not fair on DSD and also switching to that arrangement means we get no weekends to ourselves.
How often do contact arrangements change? I'm just wondering what's normal really.
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How often does your contact arrangement change?
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SarahH12 · 13/10/2017 10:08
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