I really need guidance here. Am I over reacting when I got upset about this? I'm looking for honesty because I am quite an emotional person and tend to take things too personally.
My step son 11 likes to pretend to stab me or hurt me etc. On Friday he chocked me and it gave me that gag feeling and I said he is not allowed to do that to me. I don't appreciate it. I have asked him lots of times not to do this because I really feel uncomfortable when he does.
My partner jumped to his defense saying it is just a joke. That he is just a kid and I'm being sensitive.
I'm very upset with him for allowing his child to treat me like that. He is a good kid mostly but I hate this kind of thing.
I spoke to his dad my fiancé about it again this morning because I really feel quite strongly about it and he said, "it must be the that time of month again. Everything he does irritates you." It really disturbs me that he thinks this is a non issue.
I am considering leaving him because I don't feel cherished or protected.
To be clear I don't feel the child would have harmed me, I just don't think it's acceptable behaviour.
I would really appreciate any input and advice.
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Eab123 · 01/10/2017 19:14
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