DP and his soon to be ExW have finally got round to sorting the financial settlement that will be the basis of their divorce. They have 2 DC. They had agreed everything between themselves but DP received a letter today which among others things requested all my financial income and expenditure etc.
DP and I own a house together, (ExW has signed legal documents to say she has no interest in the house)but we have separate finances. We both contribute 50/50 to the bills, shopping etc but I earn more so therefore have more disposable income. I also pay for half the DCs food, clothes etc when they are with us. DP pays the maintance himself.
DP is seeing his solicitor in a few days to get advice but is this normal?
I love my DSC but I don't think my earnings should be taken into consideration when working out the maintenance. I've worked really hard over the years to get a good job that pays well and therefore we have a nice house now. I'm not loaded BTW and I do have loans etc.
I thought we all got on well, I wasn't an OW before anyone asks. ExW seems to like me and got me a Mother's Day card from the DSC.
When DP asked her about the letter, she said she didn't know that they were asking for that etc but she wants what is best for the kids as she wants to move to a bigger house.
Can she get my income included in the settlement? Obviously we aren't married as DP and her aren't divorced yet.
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Bluebell9 · 21/06/2017 19:24
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