(I'm not sure if this would go in this particular forum but it made the most sense, so I'm sorry if this is the wrong place!)
I'm a mother to two lovely 4 year old twins, who I would do anything for. And recently (about 5/6 months ago, now) I started seeing a lovely man who I'm now happily calling my boyfriend. But I have no idea how to introduce him to my children. They already know that sometimes Mummy goes out with her 'friend' but I don't know how to explain that he's more than just my friend. He hasn't even met them yet!
I made it very clear with him that if we were going to go anywhere in our relationship he would have to be aware that my children come first, and he needs to be aware that he's going to be a part of their lives. Whether he becomes 'Dad' to them or not, he knows and is quite open to the idea of being a part of their lives in some way.
The whole idea will be new to them though, their biological father was never in the picture with them. It's always just been me, so I'm not sure how to even begin!
They're only 4 years old, I don't know how to begin with the idea. Any advice is greatly appreciated, thank you so much in advance!
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KianaAT · 27/04/2017 20:30
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