Me and my partner have a child together and he has 3 other children that come for tea 3 days a week, stay over every other weekend. We have a great relationship and they are good kids.
One of the children is quite challenging at times but we usually get on as I rarely get involved.
Tonight though I got upset.
We were all sat on the sofa watching a family film & the children were taking turns sitting next to daddy. the child that is challenging child A wouldn't move for child B so daddy made space for both. A got in a strop and stormed off. So I said 'come on mate go and sit next to daddy as well.' His response was to stamp his feet and poke his tongue out at me. I told him to sit on the stairs. He didn't move. So I moved him onto the stairs. He got up again and tried to fight me whilst I was trying to put him on the stairs again. I got him there. At this point I'm stressed and annoyed. Everyone else still sat just listening. My partner said just stick with it. He went out to speak to him so I went outside to 'cool' down.
Only to be shouted at for having to cool down as I got angry. It's his son and I shouldn't get angry as I don't with our son. ( my son never behaves this way). My partner said 'if you think I'm having another child with you then you've got another thing coming.
I try my hardest with all his children and the are treated like my own. I am lost with what I can do or say. He wants me to discipline them and accept them as my own. I feel defeated.
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Marierose511 · 22/04/2017 23:38
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