Posted in 30 days only but not got any replies, so posting here, sorry if its the wrong place. I will copy and paste:
I am going to be as vague as I can here, I hope my post isn't pointless, I feel rather sick and don't know what to think.
Been seeing BF for a year. I came out of an LT EA relationship about 4 years ago and I have been really happy since meeting new BF. We plan a future together.
Recently his ex has accused him of being abusive during their marriage. I can't believe he could be abusive...I have known him for a year and don't see any signs. He has always been open about their relationship and admitted where he has done wrong and behaved badly (this behavior I wouldn't class as abuse).
Of course he denied the accusations. He says she is accusing him because she wants to reduce contact time with his DC and wanted legal aid for court. And that she is jealous of the time I have spent with their DC. This has all kicked off since I was introduced to the DC about a month ago.
I don't know what I am asking, or why I am posting this. I don't believe he could be abusive but then again am I being naive because I am in love and because I want our relationship to work? Could it be that she is jealous that I have been introduced to their DC? I am happy to reduce the amount of time I spend with them if it helps (our time together is very limited anyway, maybe once or twice a month)
Please help me get my head straight!
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schmurfs · 21/03/2017 12:41
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