I'm sure this is relevant in biological families as well as just generally in life, but as we are going to be blending families I thought I would post here for advice.
My dp and I have been together 3 years and will be buying a house together asap and getting married next year. We both have 2 children each. All mid teens. I currently rent and dp has a house to sell so we don't live together yet .
We get on really well and can't wait to be together all the time, but I sometimes find it really hard to accept that we are so different in our views of whats important when it comes to our lives.
Dp is very laid about everything. Rarely gets bothered by stuff whereas I can be quite uptight and let little things get to me way after they should.
For example, dp dd refuses to wear her proper school shoes and dp doesn't make her and recently gave her a note to excuse for her wearing wrong shoes as the ones she wants to wear were getting her feet wet in the rain. I would have told her tough she has proper shoes but dp doesnt see it as a big deal. She also writes her notes to get out of pe just because she doesn't want to do it, whereas i just think that's part of school suck it up.
I know they are just stupid things to get het up about but it bugs the crap out if me.
How do i teach nyself not to let it as dp won't change her view either.
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inchoccyheaven · 07/03/2017 15:42
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