I've nc for this because I feel like a horrible person. DD is 5 months old and she has a half sister, my dsd who is 8. I've always had a great relationship with her, and we see her every other weekend and half the school holidays and occasionally in between as my DH and her mum are amicable.
She has always been a handful and has become even more so since DD came along. I understand why and I get it, I really do. She's not the baby anymore, she has share her dad's affections etc.. we absolutely do not treat her any differently...her dad has always spoilt her, and been a Disney dad. But she has turned into someone I really don't like anymore. I could write lists of things she does and says that annoy me.
I think that the baby has had an affect but I also think that some of it is just the person she's becoming. And it's not nice. In fact the only person she is absolutely lovely to is me!
I'm starting to dread her coming to stay and I find myself hoping and praying that my DD doesn't act the same way when she's older. I guess I'm hoping that she hasn't inherited these traits from her dad! I know that my influence on DD will play a big part in her behaviour.
I think a part of me is worried that because I'm so completely besotted with DD that I'm loving dsd less. I promised dh and myself that I would treat them and love them the same, but that was before I understood the feeling of love I have for my own child. I feel like a horrible person. I guess I just need a few words of wisdom!
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Badstepmum · 21/02/2017 22:08
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