After parental alienation, DP had to go to court to stop ex withholding access. We haven't seen DSCs since May 16. The court has ordered that they can come to us next week as there was no valid reason for access to cease.
We are obviously delighted but I am terrified. They will have changed and grown up lots and we suspect poisoned against us for months, and I just don't know how to be or if they hate me.
I asked DP if he wanted me around the first time they come back but he said absolutely, we need to work through this and rebuild relationship with them together.
I guess I know whatever's been said, they will always love their dad cos he's their dad. But they've notaken got those same ties with me.
Sorry if this sounds silly but after months of this being all we've wanted, I'm now scared. Any advice?
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Lala1980 · 19/02/2017 19:37
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