I've been in my step child's life since dsc was about 13 months old. Child is now 3.5
In the beginning we were very close, fall in me to sleep, would only eat if I spoon fed not their father, wanted to play with me only etc etc
The last... 6 months? Have been hell!!
Screaming they hate me, won't come near me, if bedtime is mentioned it's "but I'm not sleeping on hisvalentine" I buy a treat for them they won't like it, screams I miss my mummy when it falls to me to do anything with/for stepchild.
Stepchild has just said "I'm not going to your birthday" and I said "oh that's a shame I wanted to share my cake with you" stepchild just shrugged and asked to play with my eldest. My child saw this and was literally stood their with her mouth wide open.
I know at least some of it is because of step child's age. I have kids so I know that much.
Since this started I've taken a back seat, not pushed our relationship and just let stepchild do their thing with their dad.
Step child has now started being like this to my kids. And it's always when their dad has popped out or left the room! I've told him and he just says I'm being silly or tell sc to "be nice"
I'm struggling so much with it all. Perhaps I'm being a baby, but I feel like an evil stepmother!
Any advice welcome.
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hisvalentine · 18/02/2017 10:03
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