Hello,
I'm new on here.
I just don't know how to manage anymore. I have 4 children, one of them being my step son, he's 11. He lives with us full time and sees hes mum once a week.
Dss is being very difficult, I feel awful as I completely understand his issues, but life is just horrendous just now. His mum and elder siblings just keep telling him he doesn't need to listen and should make life difficult for us, and as he thinks it will gain her love, its what he's doing :(
He is being verbally and physically violent to me and his younger siblings, he's disrespectful and he just constantly lies about anything.
I have been to school and arranged support for him, us and his mum but every time we try and get her to co-parent she just refuses and tells him he can do as he likes, then doesn't do anything for him.
I have had numerous conversations with dh about us living separately but its financially impossible and I feel guilty as there would be no one to care for dss!
I'm sorry, I come across selfish but its been going on for so long i'm just so exhausted with it all, Its impacting on every one and its not fair on the younger children.
how can I make this better?
Thank you.
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user1484046287 · 10/01/2017 12:13
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