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Feeling annoyed with DPs ExW.
DP works shift, he has the kids as much as his shifts allow, normally 2-3 nights a week. ExW is the RP due to the shift work.
ExW has said she wants to drop the kids to us at 7am on Christmas Eve and New Years Day as she has agreed to work. I'm more than happy to have the kids, I'm looking forward to doing Christmas things with them and generally love spending time with them.
What I'm annoyed about is DP said she couldn't bring them round that early as he is working till 4am so will need a few more hours sleep. We normally do a lunchtime handover after DP does a night shift and ExW is fully aware of his shift pattern.
ExW response was 'snowflake will be there, she can look after them while you sleep'
I do help DP out by looking after the kids if he has to go to work early at the weekend before ExW picks them up, but this is never expected by DP, I offer so that the kids don't have to get up super early.
Is it just me who thinks this is cheeky? If she had asked if I would do it, that wouldn't bother me it's the expectation that I will do it.
Now I feel I can't go out on New Years Eve as I'll have to be up to be with the kids, or DP will have to get up and he won't get chance to have another sleep before going back to work again New Year's Day evening.
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Snowflake2016 · 22/12/2016 21:59
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