My OH has 3 children. 7,9 and 12 and without waffling on, we have been together 7 years and I only met them 4 years ago. This was difficult and I wanted so much to be apart of their lives.
Now 7 years on, OH and I have our own DD and the kids come and stay every other weekend.
My issue is that I do not enjoy them coming round at all, in fact I dread it. They are very good children but are very lively and want my OHs attention constantly.
I know some people will think I am a nasty cow and I really don't need to be told that. I do not like feeling this way.
I always put on an act when they are there because I wouldn't want them to know how I feel. They are only children and it is not their fault.
My OH have a great relationship and the only arguments we have are over his kids.
Are they any other step parents who have felt this way? Did it ever change? How did you get over it?
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rosymermaid · 25/09/2016 12:06
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