So my oh and his boys moved in with me temporarily whilst we sorted a proper home for us all. It became evident that him and the boys eat A LOT. He gave me 'pocket money' for living there and if I'm honest, I felt a bit hard done by financially.
We will be moving in together very soon and I just wondered how blended families sort their bills out.
I receive child benefit for my dd and he pays out maintenance.
We each have our children 50/50, but he has two. I know rent etc isn't different but obviously an extra child does cost more in terms of feeding, going out etc.
My oh hasn't had to pay bills since he split with his ex as he's been sofa surfing and living with parents, so he's not exactly switched on with budgeting.
After his maintenance is paid (which is a bloody lot, you may remember my post about how we have them 50/50 daytime, but not eves) we have just about the same amount of money each, left.
I'm just looking at a fair way and thinking head, over heart!
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Greenbigtree · 22/09/2016 14:12
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