Hi, my first post on here! Although I have had a look around, I have not been able to find any real info about my current situation - I have looked here and generally on line. I'll be as brief as I can, and would really appreciate any comments you might have... Hopefully this is in the right thread.
I'm a bloke, and I would like to move in with my girlfriend of 4 years. She has 4 boys (15,12,7 and 5). She works 30 hours a week, and recieves working tax and child tax credits(I hope those are the correct terms). She has a mortgage and all the bills that come along with it. She recieves maintenance from the father monthly. They are currently going through the divorce process.
She manages her finances very well, and has done so since they split about 5 years ago. We would like to live together, but are uncertain of the implications when it comes to what she currently recieves in terms of the tax and child benefits. Would my income then come into things when reviewing her entitlements?
While I get on great with the kids, and we do a lot of 'family' stuff together, the financial side of raising them has been between my gf and the father - in terms of scool expenses, extra curricular activities and general clothing and food, which is covered by the maintenance and her total income. By moving into the house, do I effectively take on some of the financial responsibility of the children (which will result in any help from the government being lowered from its current level)?
At the moment we do not plan on getting married, but we feel we have been together long enough, and the boys are comfortable enough that we should move on, and, well, move in.
I'd appreciate any insight you might be able to give. Thank you
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4boysnosleep · 29/08/2016 23:19
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