We are on holiday with our two kids DSS12 and DD7 for three weeks. DSS is a difficult child and often refuses to do all sorts of things but as we only have him EOW there hasn't been much that we have tried to sort it out that has been very successful. DH normally has the patience of a saint with DSS but today when we got to an activity that DSS chose he refused to put on sunscreen on his face without a mirror nor would he let DH put it on his face. After reasoning etc DH starts shouting at DSS and then loses the plot completely and smashes the suncream into DSSs face and smears it all over. I start shouting to stop that he's rubbing it straight in his eyes. DH stops. DSS in floods of tears. DD crying. DH is enraged and proceeds to pound one fist into the palm of his other hand threateningly. I insist DH goes and takes a walk while trying to sort out two completely flipped out kids. He comes back and takes DSS for a walk and they chat come back and all seems better but it's NOT OKAY with me! DH has never been in the slightest bit violent or aggressive toward any of us. If anything I have more of a temper and can be more shouty. I tried to talk to DH but he maintains that DSS has to learn not to be such a pain and that he did apologise to DSS. I just can't let it go but I don't know what to do with it either.
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crazygolfgonewrong · 08/08/2016 22:12
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