My dss is on school holidays. Is it my 'duty' to provide childcare so my oh can work?
I work part-time and there are some days when I don't work that dss is in our care, but I have my dd (not oh's) to look after.
They are the same age and when I have looked after them both together on my own before, I have found it exhausting and extremely stressful for all involved!
They clash a bit and I find myself disciplining my dd when it should be dss - but I'm scared to tell him off in case it gets back to his mum. I also find that I need to watch them lots as otherwise they will bicker - I find I become a bit of a referee!
I'll be on maternity when the next holidays are around and my oh said that I can look after baby and both the children. I asked if he was joking!! My friends tell me it's my role as a step mum that I shouldn't treat them differently, which is true, but I would never dream of asking my oh to look after my dd, I would seek support from her dad's family or my family.
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Iloveapplepie · 29/07/2016 09:18
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