I am asking this for a friend....
Andy and Bella started a relationship when Zach was 1 year old. Zach is now 10.
The relationship broke down 5 years ago but Andy continued to see Zach every weekend, friday to sunday or monday and occasional week days. Bella was very happy with this set up as she could work and have a social life and as A isn't the biological father, she didn't want any child support but him having Z reduced her bills. A and B are still on very good terms.
Andy is now in another relationship and has a biological child. Andy also had a serious, life changing illness which means he can't work full time.
Bella has suggested that Andy could claim for tax credits as she and her partner can't claim as they are above the threshold.
Zach now knows Andy isn't his biological father but he will always be his daddy. Biological father has never had anything to do with Zach but is aware of his existence. He has never seen him, nor paid for him. Bella is getting married soon and has said Zach can change his surname to Andy's if he would like to, so he has a connection to one of his parents (currently has mum's maiden name)
So to the questions!
Can Andy claim tax credits for Zach without being his biological dad?
Can Andy get PR for Zach even though they were never married and are not together?
Andy's new partner is very happy with the set up and would like things arranged that means Andy can make emergency decisions if Bella is on holiday for example and so their child will have the same surname as Zach
Sorry, I know it is quite confusing, I hope it's understandable
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