Hi all,
I'm literally at the end of my tether with my DS and DSD!
They are both 4 so very similar in age. 30% of the time they get on and the rest of the time someone is in tears!
My DS starts off okay but they starts hitting, pushing, not sharing and generally goes out his way to annoy her. I don't know where this behaviour comes from because he is not like this when she isn't here and he is not like it at nursery either.
Whenever he does something to her she instantly cries which obviously gives him the reaction he is wanting. She also comes to tell us straight away if he does anything wrong.
I am constantly putting him in time out, which doesn't work as he just starts trashing wherever I put him. I have also tried removing whatever he is playing with and saying it's not coming out for X amount of days.
I'm just loosing the will to live! I just don't know how to approach it anymore and any advice would be great, and like I say this behaviour only happens when she comes to stay which is heartbreaking because I just want them to get on and for her to have a happy time when she is here.
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