In the knowledge that threads about threads are frowned upon, it just made me think and want to ask all you lovely step parents, here in a safe place.. (Rather than the vipers den of AIBU where all step parent are wicked step child haters) do your parents really consider your step children on an equal basis to their biological grandchildren. I know my mum doesn't and tbh I think the whole thing is really a kind of silent conspiracy that this is what they should be feeling but actually don't.
To put in context, my parents would never in a million years be mean to my DSC. They send birthday gifts without fail. They chat when they come over to visit, but this whole 'if your parents can't treat them the same you shouldn't engage - all seems a little, well, made up ? My dcs dads parents are dead, so they only have one set of gp's , whereas DSC have 2 sets of completely adoring GPs. (Dh's are equally nice to mine, but don't for example have them to stay for weeks in the holidays etc, ask about school, chat on the phone. It's very similar to how my parents are with dhs children. Friendly, kind but no real bond.
Interested to ask, are there any of you out their where your parents genuinely treat your children and your partners children from a previous relationship absolutely equally...and for that matter extended family...would your Aunties/Uncles / cousins for example be upset if your step children weren't at a family party held by the grandparents/great grandparents to whom they had no biological link. ?
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.....but honestly, really do your parents treat or feel the same about their dgc as their DSGC ?
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Marilynsbigsister · 05/06/2016 21:16
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