General rant here - DSS's birth mum is pregnant again and gave us full custody (informally - not court papers have been signed) over a year ago. She has seen DSS only a few hours since Xmas. When she does see him she pays him little attention (all visits are supervised) and she rarely calls. DSS really couldn't be interested in her and frequently doesn't want to talk to her. I feel that we should be setting up something more formal so that we don't get done over by her, but I'm also concerned about what we do about her either seeing even less of him as the pregnancy develops, or what happens if she gives the baby up for adoption (highly likely) - can we ask that DSS is allowed contact? I'd just like DSS to not find out when he's older and feel like we did nothing.
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