Please someone help me out, my step son comes to stay with us every weekend. We pick him up in the morning and have him until Sunday lunch time. Every rime he comes ours he's always in clothes that are ripped or dirty, hasn't had a wash or brushed his teeth, and just lately he isn't even having breakfast in a morning before coming to us. Now I don't mind changing his clothes etc but for dh ex to not even make sure he's clean or fed worries me. Dh has raised these issues with her several times and she just doesn't respond. She has another child with her current partner but this child is the opposite always clean, can tell she's well looked after, always out with her mum doing things, buying new toys etc. I'm at my wits end nothing we say to her matters. My husband does his best by his son we buy him new clothes all the time, treat him to days out (when we have the money). He's treated no different to mine and dh son. We have another baby on the way and I worry now she's going to get worse. I've told dh he needs go seek advise on this now because it's every week which raises concerns. We see pics on social media and it's the same when he's home so we know she isn't doing it just because he comes our house.
Has anyone dealt with an ex like this that can offer any advise at all??
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cheekymummy89 · 23/04/2016 12:00
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