Looking from opinions from all parties on this, I'll try and keep this as agenda free as possible.
DSD has a public Instagram profile and has 1400 followers. Some are friends. Some are definitely from (research has found) apps that give you daily followers if you log in daily and follow others, then you get followers back.
Recently she's started posting some inappropriate content. Pouty selfies, underwear shots, not full underwear but her in her new negligee (we definitely didn't buy her that!) cleavage shots etc, she's also been tagging her location in the photos.
OH and I have done our homework, public profiles are definitely not advisable especially with provocative teens and none of her friends have public profiles. Some of her followers are extremely dubious, 30+ men in Brazil with photos of guns on their profiles, young teenage girls in Asia with some very inappropriate content which research tells us is how paedophile things operate. Followers follow dummy accounts, then follow girls that the network are following etc.
We've tried every tactic going to try and explain to her, reason with her and plead with her that this is unsafe and she needs to listen to us on setting boundaries. Her response was "mum says it's ok so leave me alone"
Mum doesn't do social media and we're sure doesn't know what she's dealing with.
Her mother refuses to talk with my partner and when he confronted the two of them a few weeks ago, mum took her daughters side and said "DSD says she knows what she is doing and you're being controlling".
DSD has now blocked us but as her profile is public we only need to open it in safari to see what's she's doing and it's getting worse. She also refuses to see us now.
DSD is only just 15, WWYD in our situation? We've reported some photos as she's underage and Instagram have done nothing.
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Dollyparton3 · 08/04/2016 20:53
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