ok well this is a long story but lets start by iv been her step mom for 12 years, in July of last year she chose to move in with us do to money problems with her mother. we built her her own room so she didnt have to share with her sister (my daughter) we payed for her driving course, bought her 400$ glasses, bought her 1000$ of clothes spent over 500$ on her room decor. now she gets kicked out of school steals lies again and again, we have very strict ruels her. do to the fact of how she was acting. now she has chosen to move back to her mothers were she can do what ever she wants, but heres the thing, we let her take ALL her stuff clothes cameras tablets ps3. ect. but no she wants everything, duve, blankets, tapestries, desk, chair posters. she even tried to come and steal it all when we were gone. her mother cant buy her these things bec of money issues. we feel as if we have been played and used only for her to get the things she wanted. When im the one who bought her all this. we have told her that the stuff was bough for her bedroom here. and it stays, now she say she will speak to a lawyer so she can have it all. i dont know what to do. i feel as if this just might break me. anyone please give me some advice. iv given this girl everythng and now i feel sooo used and fed up. i have taken it all back and put it in my room, but she is comming ith lawyers, what will they say? give it all to her? or have her mother buy her own blanket and furneture?
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16 year old moves to mothers and want everything from here
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roselawlor · 26/03/2016 19:26
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