I have known her since she was 2. On contact weekends I was the one to get up with her, I was the one she came to when she was sick or had hurt her self. It was me who bathed her and washed and did her hair. I have helped with homework and planned days out for her and her brother.
As she's gotten older and noticed her mums dislike to me (not OW btw) our relationship has suffered.
Now she is 9, and as I sit hear with her I can't help feel sad about the void we now have. Whilst she has been brought up differently to how I might do it (not wrong, just different) I also know her mum is a big part of it. It makes it hard to get past the feelings of frustration I have. And when those feeling come, they go just as fast And I'm left hating myself for feeling tham in the first place.
She's a lovely girl, not without fault but nothing terrible....I just need to get passed these feelings.
How the hell do I get back to how we were, before she had a clue of mums resentments?
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WhoHasACrystalBall · 12/02/2016 18:36
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