I thought I'd ask for your opinion on this tricky situation. Firstly I'm a man in a relatively new relationship (near 4 months).
The relationship is a good one, very loving and supportive. My girlfriend has three children from previous relationship (10,12, and 14) who are great. I also see my little girl at the weekends and days after school (although the children haven't met). All her children accept me and have said they like it when I'm around and also see that their mum is loved and happy.
Just of late though, the youngest of 10 has stated that she's a little jealous despite her having a lot of her mums attention. She's started to kick off at the slightest thing (total meltdown because the heating wasnt on yesterday). She also tries to join in when her mum and I have a hug (like when I walk through the door).
I kind of 'get' where she's at but my question is how best can I support her mum in managing the jealousy and perhaps insecurity of her youngest?
Her youngest and I do chat and we get on really well (as I do with her two other boys); I've also (without interfering) been able to de-escalate her meltdowns when she has said it was ok to talk. My girlfriend called me the child whisperer after lol.
What do you guys think?
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DiamondBlue1974 · 07/01/2016 07:50
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