DP's ex moved 75 miles away a couple of years ago. Since then they have been scrapping and fighting over who has DSD (5) for Xmas eve and Xmas morning.
We managed to get her for Xmas eve and morning last year and then DP made the 150 + miles trip to take her back and come home again.
The year before this, his ex had her for Xmas eve and Xmas morning and we had her during the afternoon/nighttime by which time she was beside herself, cried all afternoon and went to bed early.
They still haven't made a decision on what's happening this year, and it's probably going to be very last minute and 'couldn't organise a piss up on a brewery' esque as per.
It just all strikes me as very unfair on DSD. On a day when she should be chilling out, having a nice day opening her presents with family and tucking into Xmas dinner she's being passed from pillar to post, has to sit in a car for the best part of two hours (bad country roads from her DM's to ours) and having to rush everything to be ready for DP dropping her back or picking her up.
Inwardly, I think that at 5 years old it's a hell of a lot for her to contend with and that the suggestion of alternate Christmas' isn't too far fetched. I will also point out that it's not particularly fair on DP either who has to do all of the travelling as his ex refuses.
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To think that DP's and his EDP's Xmas plans are fucking stupid?
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Liquidlucnhlover · 12/12/2015 08:24
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