I have a SD (10yrs old) and my OD (6 yrs old) been with my H for 7 years married for 2. It has been a long agonising road with my SD to the point that we have not seen her since January and now she is about to appear for a week. It was her own choice she apparently hates me because in her words I am always on her case. She lives with two women full time obviously one is her mum. They do not discipline her at all and never have. She likes to come to our house cause riots then leave particularly terrorising my OD because she is jealous of her. I have done the nice person thing been walked over by her and her Dad and now he has eventually seen her for what she is. I am not looking forward to a week with her and my Husband cannot accept this which I can kind of understand as it is his first child but she doesnt generally give a toss about any of us most of the time does not phone my H or her sister hardly facetimes. She is one of the most manipulative children I have come across in my life and everyone on my end of family and friends have all experienced her but yet my H just gets over it and moves on. How do you deal with a badly behaved 10 yr old who is so disrespectful which I am now over feeling sorry for her due to coming from a split home because she knows exactly what she is doing. Two psychologists have even said the same thing she knows what she is doing but its acceptable because she comes from a split home. My OD and I have always suffered in different ways over the years and we actually we starting to get a bit of piece and normality in our lives becoming a strong unit as you might say. It is all about to be ruined though and I know it. Has anyone got a story where they now get on with the female step child after having a horrendous time. I reckon it will not be until she is in her twenties and realises what a horrible person she was.
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