Quick rundown, we've been together 6 years, his DD is 6 (they split before they found out she was pregnant, relationship was apparently dead and buried- she finished it). He's always had trouble with the mum, access has been crap and he set the CSA payments up himself as she "didn't want anything". We have her every fortnight Friday night until Sunday night.
We now have a nearly 4 month old DS together.
All of a sudden, DSD seems to be with us all of the time. The mum is constantly offering us to have her now, and of course my OH isn't going to say no. We've just currently had her from Friday until Wednesday this week. OH works and I'm on maternity leave so I seem to be with her the majority of the time. Today she's text saying to OH, "DD has said she's staying at yours on Sunday, is that right?". DSD wouldn't of said that at all. Later she text to say, "I've just found out the childminder isn't working Mondays throughout the rest of the holidays so can you have her for the Sunday nights until Monday night". So it was obvious that the first text was a lie.
AIBU to feel annoyed? I enjoy mine and OH's chilled out Sunday nights together and as I'm still in the barely-any-sleep stage with DS, I've got in a routine of how me and DS sleep in the weekday mornings.
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RL20 · 06/08/2015 20:13
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