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Who here are SM's

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EatSleepRepeat Wed 05-Aug-15 21:22:17

Just wondering

Maybe83 Wed 05-Aug-15 21:30:53

I am and my dh is a stepdad, both our children also have a step mother and step dad in their other homes.

Follyfoot Wed 05-Aug-15 21:35:51

I am to 2 DSSs and DH is stepdad to my DD.

Reginafalangie Wed 05-Aug-15 21:36:12

I have been a SM for 14 years, a mother of 4 aged 8,8 11 & 12 and my DP is a SF.

slkk Wed 05-Aug-15 22:11:07


GemmaTeller Wed 05-Aug-15 22:14:29

I am, been a SM to DSD for 24 years

AnneLovesGilbert Wed 05-Aug-15 22:18:13

Me too! DSS6 and DSD6. Are you also?

EatSleepRepeat Wed 05-Aug-15 22:21:16

I am a sm to two dc, also have my own dc

MsColouring Wed 05-Aug-15 23:31:54

Me. Plus I have my own two dc from previous marriage.

chocoraisin Wed 05-Aug-15 23:34:21

two of my own, 2SDC

MirandaWest Wed 05-Aug-15 23:46:28

I'm not quite sure - do I need to be married to be a stepmum? DP and I live together - he has a DS and I have a DD and a DS so I may be one.

AlpacaMyBags Wed 05-Aug-15 23:46:59

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

ProbablyMe Wed 05-Aug-15 23:57:48

I am sm to my DPs 2 DDs and he's sd to my 4 DSs.

starlightloz Thu 06-Aug-15 03:48:11

I am, currently a thankless task!

thehook Thu 06-Aug-15 06:49:11

Three of own with DH, one DSD.

vitaminC Thu 06-Aug-15 07:31:22

Me. Dh and I have 3 each. None together. Age range: 11-21.
My three also have a stepmother and a baby half - sister.
Everyone gets on well. Except my stepkids' mother, whom I've never met, but we've never had any trouble with her either. She's just very private.

EatSleepRepeat Thu 06-Aug-15 07:48:25

I don't believe you need to be married to be classed as a stepmum although I know a lot will disagree ,but if you're in a long-term relationship then you're filling that role

BoboChic Thu 06-Aug-15 07:53:13

You don't need to be married to be a mother and you don't need to be married to be a stepmother.

EatSleepRepeat Thu 06-Aug-15 08:09:21

Bobo, that's a much better way of saying it grin

JeSuisMoi Thu 06-Aug-15 08:23:56

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

JoanJettPack Thu 06-Aug-15 09:55:01

I am! I have one dsd (9) who lives with us 3 days pw. I also have 2 ds's (10 and 12) who live with us f/t from my previous marriage and a ds (3 months) with my dh.

Crosbybeach Thu 06-Aug-15 10:42:54

Three stepchildren.

Ahemily Thu 06-Aug-15 12:59:21

Me too! DSD1 aged 7 and DSD2 aged 2

bonnymiffy Thu 06-Aug-15 13:08:28

Yes, me too. DSS is 13, we also have DD1 who is 4 and DD2 who is 2. And DH makes 4 children wink

M00nUnit Thu 06-Aug-15 13:28:11

I have three lovely stepsons. No DCs of my own.

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