Hi, I have my 3 DSDs, my OH and our son on 'holiday' with my family next week. It was my suggestion as DSDs have been quite distant recently - thought it might pull people together.
However, oldest DSD has refused to come to house for a few months (wnet to live with her mother) when I am there after she was rude to me and I pulled her up on it. She wants to come to visit with my family but it will be the first time. She wants to 'brush it under the carpet' I think - says we are just different people. Yet the incident which caused her to leave in the first place is still totally unresolved (She resented me asking her to do anything and refused to say hello to me and my son).
Do I just leave it? Or have a quiet word just so we acknowledge there is unfinished issues?
I'm worried if I ignore it she will start coming around again and being exactly the same. But I don't want a big scene on holiday!
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Kkaty · 21/07/2015 18:57
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