My dp's ex has massive issues with boundaries. Dp ended up removing her as a friend on fb as she would comment on anything he posted or was tagged in - even if I had posted it. They have an amicable working relationship but that is it but it always felt like she was trying to give the impression they were still friends. When he de-friended her from fb she then started commenting on all his friends posts e.g. commenting on dp's best friends's girlfriends posts about having taken dp to the same place for a birthday and she is always commenting on his family's posts even though she doesn't actually get on with any of them.
She texts constantly when we have dss and tries to tell us how to parent and that has at times that has included telling dp that we should put my dd to bed earlier. She always expects to be told what dp is doing even if it doesn't affect dss. Last weekend (I have posted about this before - sorry) she organised a haircut for dss on dd's birthday and had a strop when dp wouldn't take him.
So the icing on the cake - this week dp's aunt died of cancer. She phoned dp the next day asking why he hadn't phoned her about it and took it upon herself to tell dss even though dp said he would do it. And then dp found out that she had messaged one of his uncles to ask him to keep an eye on dp at the funeral next week.
This isn't normal behaviour right?
Oh and she has a dp and a baby.
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MsColouring · 09/07/2015 20:44
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