Basically I was looking after lots of
children yesterday and DSD who is 16 shouted in my face and had a complete tantrum in front of several of them.
She was upset that some of them
Hadn't waited for her to get ready to go out to play. They called to her to catch up with them but dsd is ALWAYS late. She completely lost it. I told her that they didn't wait because she is always late (which was the wrong thing to say) and she screamed in my face and stormed off to her room. Her dad followed her.
I then had to calm down three smaller children who were really confused and upset. One of whom had a real melt down as she was so scared of dsd.
Dp let her stay in her room for nearly two hours and when she came out she didn't apologise to me. I was furious with do for not making her apologise and could hardly speak to either of them for the rest of the day (I was busy looking after the little children anyway).
Ok so I clearly didn't handle this well. What should I have done? I am exhausted today.
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Onthedoorstep · 31/12/2014 13:08
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