Hi,
I already posted this on another board, but i think this one is more the right place lol, im new to this!
I am a step-mum to a 2 1/2 year old girl, she stays with her dad and me 3 days a week.
She has always been a happy and carefree child, but recently i have noticed a change in her behaviour and it is worrying.
She was with us for the day yesterday, and the first thing she said when we picked her up was "my mummy hits me"
She has said this before, and her dad brought it up with her mum, but it was put down to her making things up, or getting confused.
I do know that her mum has been getting into trouble a lot over the past few months, with drinking and fighting, so much so that the police have been called to her place on several occasions, but nothing has been taken any further.
I couldnt see any visible bruises or marks on her, but she kept saying, without any sort of prompting, "my mummy hits me", and while she was with me and her dad, she was happy and laughing and playing right up until the moment we pulled up outside her mums place, when she started whinging and crying.
Also, i have noticed that if we are out and she hears a loud noise, for example people talking loudly in the street, she freezes and covers her ears.
Her dad is also concerned, and the first time she said what she has been saying, he asked her mum whats been going on, but didnt get very far without her causing a massive row.
As she is not my daughter biologically, I dont really know what to do or how to go about it. I love her as though she were my own daughter though, and i find it very upsetting and worrying to see her behaving like this, and really think something needs to be done sooner rather than later.
I dont have any other children of my own, so this kind of thing is fairly new to me, problems like this.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks
Anna
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annabella34 · 03/11/2014 09:52
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