So I thought I would try and create an environment where dsd and oh can bond doing something together..
She has been tough lately as she won't come round unless we offer her something her dad feels used and when she gets here she ignores him and wants to be with me which doesn't go down well at all..
So she likes food her dads into his bike so we pick her up make a picnic and head off to a park I'd found online which has a massive adventure play ground. Now I'm nearly 8 months pregnant so no cycling for me I took the dog along there's a big off road bike track too so they would have to ride together ...
Well no! I've walked 4 miles well waddled with poor old dog round the track and she's crawled next to me on the bike! The love of food has suddenly vanished she's on a diet! Won't go on the track with me watching and then got in the car and immediately asks if it's home time and what's happening next..
We get home and she falls asleep for two hours refuses any tea and goes home without three words to oh or a thank you!
If I didn't laugh I would cry! He's annoyed, shes gone home and I've walked 4 miles for nothing.. There must be a funny side somewhere i give up!! Please tell me I'm not the only one failing with a very sulky 11 year old?!
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11 year old dsd disaster day again..!!
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Elizabeth120914 · 06/07/2014 19:18
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