XH's partner has photos of her and the DDs all over Facebook, much to my disgust. I feel really cross amongst other things that they are both using the kids as 'fashion accessories', so to speak. He's a complete Disney Dad.
They're getting married soon (not a problem - I'm re-hitched now anyway) but she refuses to engage with XH and me about child-rearing and yet is flouncing around saying "I'll be a proper step mother soon".
AIBU if I
- ask her to remove those pictures
- ask them both to engage better with me about bringing up the children, amount and quality of contact etc
- ask that they consider the children's privacy in social networking sites and avoid posting 'family' pictures
- restrict contact with XH unless and until these matters are tackled
Many thanks, you lovely lot xxx