So... DSD was moved to us by social services. She's been moved from the at risk register to a child in need and they are gradually going through the process of making sure everything with her mother is sorted before closing her case.
But they are driving us mental- they cancel visits to our home (they obviously don't feel the need to see her now they've moved her anyway) hours after they were meant to arrive, so we spend ages making the house perfectly clean as you do, and we wait around for ages, while they don't answer their phones, and to eventually find out they're not coming, DSD could be taken out to the park or something during that time but instead we waste a day being bored.
DP told them from the second everything kicked off that the only day he really couldn't do was a Wednesday as he is doing a college course which only runs on Wednesday, yet they have persistently booked meetings on Wednesdays over the last year or so and then send out letters saying Wednesday, often with only a couple of days notice and of course they then grumble when it has to be changed. Today DP got a call at college from the social worker saying that at the last meeting about 2 months ago, they had arranged a meeting for today (he always puts everything into his phone, so this cannot be the case as it is not in his phone and he would never have agreed to a Wednesday as he now has a real bee in his bonnet about it) and they were waiting for him (though the Mother was also unable to attend) so now they're grumbling that they have to change this too...
Why do they do it- he has asked many times for it to be put on her file that no meetings should be scheduled for Wednesdays so why why why can't they do a simple thing?!
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Fed up of Social services being silly
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alita7 · 02/04/2014 15:46
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