Just wanted to vent, really.
Dropped dsd off this morning. Dp got a phone call an hour ago telling us to pick her up again and keep her til Monday because it's mothers day tomorrow and dp's ex wants a day off as she's tired and needs a break as she's got 3 other kids to raise. Annoying, but not out of the ordinary.
We collected her and dp's ex has packed her soaking wet, unwashed swimming kit and towel. Presumably, she wants us to wash and dry it. Dsd only does swimming on Tuesday, so kit stays at her mums as we don't have her overnight Monday or Tuesday. It's obviously been sitting there, in the bag, since Tuesday. Swimming costume is size 5-6. Dsd is almost 9. Dsd is skinny but tall for her age, so it's probably a bit snug.
Dp and I both work. I have 2 ds's who live with us almost ft (see dad eo Saturday), we pay maintenance for dsd even though she lives with us almost 50% of the time. We buy all her uniform and shoes, replace things Dsd's mum loses in her hovel and wash uniform and dsd whenever she's with us.
Dsd's mum and partner don't work, but have other kids and get enough money from benefits to go out partying, buy new clothes, and go on holidays (without the kids). Why can't they wash a towel and buy a swimsuit? Why is it always our problem? Dp has gone to buy a swimsuit on his way to work, so I'll be minding dsd tonight while her mum "has a break". This is my first day off since Tuesday and my last day off till Wednesday, but it's fine cos Dsd's mum is tired.
Can't pull her on it because she thinks she's gods gift to parenting and prone to threats of court and stopping access if we dare challenge her on anything.
That's it, really. I just wanted to get it off my chest because the law states that I'm not allowed to go and kick the lazy fecker in the tits, sadly.
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Dsd's mum must be exhausted
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QueenTea33 · 29/03/2014 16:07
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