My 2DCs love their Dad but he and his new DP are less than great with contact, childcare, treating them well etc.
Eldest DC has been doing percentages at school and sat down and said this:-
SM and her 2DCS have our Daddy 100% of the time
They have their Daddy 50% of the time ( true, regular contact)
DC1 and I only see Daddy 10% of the time ( well less than that last year 11 ON stays)
So why when we go there do they tell us we have to share him with SM and her DCs, because it is not fair, that means we do not even get 10%, we just get a tiny %.
It is not fair, they need to share more .
I often lurk around the SP forum, gives me an idea as to why my DCS come home and say some stuff. I think it explains clearly how a young child views contact time and why "clinginess is common". Not necessarily age inappropriate but insecurity and an awful lot else.
I agree life goes on and it should not be party time all the time with their Dad, but a little bit of "them only" time would seem appropriate.
For my DCs that miniscule % is going to get worse, they are expecting a baby.......
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