Finally!
For those who have been following my journey, there is a glimmer of light at the end if the tunnel.
Today, CAFCASS recommended DH and his ex attend the SPIP, and that a wishes and feelings report was carried out. The court agreed, and directed both. At DHs request, they also directed a single period of contact between DH and DS during half term for one afternoon. It's been 5 months since any direct contact.
DHs ex didn't do herself any favours (argued about the SPIP, wouldn't agree to the contact etc) and CAFCASS made it clear that DHs DS would be interviewed alone, somewhere neutral and that they would be looking for signs of coaching or attempts to try and influence him.
Maybe I was a bit hasty in my condemnation of the system.
What undoubtedly helped was the documented concerns that DH has raised over the years with SocServ. Oh, and CAFCASS and SocServ are confident that DH is not emotionally abusive - so I can reassure my DDs Dad, too
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Frogbyanothername · 12/02/2014 20:47
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