My DP lives with me and my 3 sons aged 15, 12 and 9. He is in the stepfather role although we are not married.
Mt exH has the children for one day (7 hours) a week. he 'cannot cope' with any more.
DS1 is difficult. he lies, steals ( has been expelled from one school, for theft; and picked up for shoplifting) drinks, smokes, probably does drugs; is aggressive to his younger brothers, has unprotected sex, does no school work.
DP has had enough. he is horrible to DS1 at times, sarky and cutting. The bullying of the younger boys makes him SO angry. I get it, I really do, quite often I don't like DS1 either; but I am powerless to change him - and he is my son.
DP has a very positive relationship with DS3; and an ok one with DS2
I feel like the piggy in the middle of the tension and strain. My experience of step parenting is entirely different as DSD is now 23 and DSS is 20. They do not live with us
Does anyone have any advice? Or even some positive stories of how things have improved ...
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Tension between kids and DP
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lemonstartree · 10/02/2014 13:44
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