Hi. I am having big problems blending our family. The two sets of children do not get on and I feel that my husband has double standards when his children come to stay. During the Xmas period his children came and stayed and as per usual arguments broke out. My problem is that his son will automatically blame my daughter even when he is not sure who has wronged him. My husband has an automatic belief of what his son says and has told me on one occasion that he knows the truth as his daughter told him what happened. This then gets me annoyed as it kind of says to me that my daughter can give her side of the events and will automatically be classed as the liar if it does not match up to what his children have said. I know my daughter is no angel (what 13 year old is?) but my husband was annoyed as she wouldn't let the arguement drop. We very nearly separated over the issue. My husband now says that the best way forwards for us is to keep the 2 families completely separate but I don't feel this is the best solution to the problem. We are now so separate that at New Year he went to see all his family on his own while I was at work which left me feeling very alone and alienated. What do I do?
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