Morning all
I want to help create some structure and guidance for our stepfamily and I thought NY is a good opportunity for something like house rules. I wanted to strike a balance between letting things take time to settle - as is needed in stepfamilies - and not delaying setting things out at the beginning (we're 5 months married). I'm a FT SM to 13yo DSD - no other children for either of us. I sounded out both my DSD and my DH and they're up for hearing my ideas - and I'm interested in theirs (this is for all of us).
If you're further down the line than us, what things do you think would be helpful? Our list doesn't need to be too austere, if it's possible to give it a spirit of joy / fun that would be good, especially as we pretty much all get on. And we need to be able to review it / try something else if it's not helpful. I thought a list of 10 things might be good, like
- Cleaning up after ourselves (in car, lounge, bathroom)
- Family meetings every fortnight?
- One about respect / manners
- One about talking / listening
Really interested in your ideas. Thanks.