My step-dad left my mum for another woman 18 months ago. I have two children who always seen him as their grandad and they were very close to him. My mum has not wanted him to see the children and we have respected that as she was so upset about the separation. However my daughters still miss him, and he sends presents for birthdays and Xmas. The girls have said they would like to see him but I am worried that this will devastate my mum. We are considering letting them see them under supervision (ie. my husband will stay with them) but I know my mum will not like this, particularly as she now says he isn't their real grandad as he's a step-grandad. What would you do?
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