My 2nd Christmas since XH left, last year I had my DCs fir Christmas lunch and Boxing Day and spent it at my parents. This year, I had them Christmas Eve and Christmas morn till 11am so did pressies etc before their dad picked them up.
I gave then spent Xmas day with DP and dss and dp's family. DP and I are now back home for the eve with dss staying. DP is annoyed I have put my DCs presents away so dss can't play with them. I know they aren't here and wouldn't know, but i don't really want to watch dss playing with their new toys for the next 2 days that they've only had about an hour to play with themselves. Am i being really silly about it?! Just feels really wrong to me. Dp's response was, oh, are we going to hide away dss's new stuff when he goes at the weekend and they come back so they can't play with it? I said he could do that if he wanted, but it isn't exactly the same as he will have had 3 days playing with them anyway. And the point is, it's grad enough having Christmas without DCs without having to watch dss play with all the things I bought them :0(
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Beccawoo · 25/12/2013 18:40
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