He is quite strict and has high (too high) expectations about their behaviour.
He is constantly moaning about my DS10 weeing on the toilet seat, his table manners (they aren't good) but it's how you speak to kids isn't it? He moans about stuff being left about in the den (xbox/tv room) he stopped them from eating/drinking in there - which is fine as they are messy. But he's surprised when they bend the rules? Which kid doesn't! They are just being kids and talking to other mums I know that all of this is totally normal.
He seems to think that once he's told them off about something, that's it, they shouldn't do it again. He hasn't lived with his own 2 DD for 7 years now and they are both 14 & 16. He is totally out of touch with how his own children behave - even though his ex is often on the phone telling him that she cannot cope with them anymore. His own DD behaved terribly on holiday but he still sees them through rose tinted spectacles.
He's come in from work tonight and we've sat down to eat, DS10 trumped during the meal and my DP just gave DS10 a filthy look, said he wasn't eating with us and stormed out.
He needs to take a reality check. Tell me if I'm wrong and I'll admit it but I'm really hurt by his constant moaning. If his DD lived with us he would have a VERY BIG shock!
He's a kind and considerate man and he does do nice things for us all but he still thinks he's in the bloody army!
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louby44 · 09/12/2013 20:54
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