What do you do when you suspect the exW of lying to your DSC to try and prevent a positive relationship with their dad?
At the moment OH only gets to see them for 2 hours a week at a contact centre because she's so restrictive but we have the final court hearing in October and we're confident we'll get at least every other weekend, hopefully with a Friday school pick up as she's highly likely to continue to obstruct contact.
Her sons have so far come out with things like "Mummy says you've taken all our money" (she got everything, he took all the debt, he pays the new higher CSA rate), "do you remember that time when you hit me really hard" (he's never laid a finger on him, and hasn't had unsupervised contact since Feb 2012, he's only 4 and has never mentioned this before), "Mummy says I'll get something special if I call you not Daddy".
This time the youngest came out with "There's naughty boys at 's house". Obviously she's talking about my sons. The youngest has not been told by OH about me or my sons so it must have come from her.
OH keeps setting the boys straight but it keeps happening. CAFCASS aren't involved in our case as they said there's no welfare concerns but when we called them they said to report it to children's services as emotional abuse which we have, and sent a solicitors letter asking her to stop doing it (obviously not working).
I've got visions of them turning up at our house now and saying to my boys "My mummy says you're naughty".
Tell me I'm not the only one dealing with this!
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HisLommel · 29/09/2013 08:46
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