Hi
I'm a step mum to a 15 year old girl. We have a good relationship. I also get on well with her mum and stepdad, and as it wasn't an acrimonious divorce her parents also get on well. All very adult etcetera and I genuinely feel lucky that it goes so well between us.
So here's the thing... I heard today that SD had her new boyfriend over at home last night and he left at 0245. That explained how knackered she was today...and grumpy LOL. But I was pretty shocked that he was there so late. Even more surprised that mum knew and was ok with it.
Am I completely out of touch??...I'm 46, I don't think of myself as old! That just seems ridiculously late. I find it difficult not to say anything but it's that balance between wanting the best for them vs. not sticking your nose in too much....always a difficult line to walk.
Would love to hear your thoughts and share any tips you. Oft have.
Thanks
Heather
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Heather67 · 28/09/2013 19:51
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